While growing up as a child and in your early teen years, you learn from Disney that the world always works out well for people with traditional morals and that true love exists everywhere. In reality, we understand and learn that love may possibly never exist and marriage may just be the beginning of a horrible end. We meet many women in our lives but none of them seem to be the perfect women that will satisfy our endless list of needs. One woman will not be extremely beautiful, cook the best dinners each night, do all the laundry and clean the whole house, but also let her husband take part in any crucial decisions. This may just be an impossible and unrealistic dream which all men have but maybe just maybe our Disney dream will become a reality.
All women should be put through a special marriage program where they learn how to be specialized to their specific husband. They will learn how to perform all the duties that their husband desires and become submissive to their every whim. They will learn how to make all sorts of meals so the husband's appetite will always be satisfied. Also, they will be adept at laundry and house cleaning so that all the clothes are spotless and the house are sparkly clean. They will dress according to what the husband wants her to wear and only perform the tasks that he wants. She will take out the garbage, help the kids with their homework, and if he desires take him a bath. She will be a household slave that asks her husband for his permission to do anything. A perfect wife that will be the foundation for a perfect marriage.
Obviously, this will never be true but a great marriage is possible in this dangerous world. When you find that special person you will never want to be single ever again and will want to be only with this one person. A great marriage includes trust and a wonderful bond between the two people. They enjoy each other's company and enjoy similar activities. They separate the chores of the house and spend equal amount of time with the children. They give each other space and respect each other as they will do anything for one another even give the other partner a kidney. The Disney dream may never come true but it's worth the effort to try to get close to it.
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